Friday, 27 September 2019

Today is not the day

As per my backdated post for last few days I am motivated and feeling positive. I am however so sore that I am struggling.

Morning routine was done in stages and I stripped bed and put in washing and changed the covers as they desperately needing done. I now cant wait to get in it.

I was dreading coming down to a sink full of dishes to find that after my partner gave me breakfast in bed he had completed them all for me. Sink still needs a wipe and them put away but no washing up for me until later!

Then breaking when came down was needed and more painkillers that I'm worried afternoon will not be possible and definitely not all the catching up on the decluttering surely?

Well maybe not completely caught up but I did manage to put dishes away,  shine sink, quickly wipe the worktops down. Then put out the hotspot that is the dining room table and wipe that while listening to chapter of my audiobook.

Had break as even just that ten minutes was too much. But really wanted to work on decluttering even if wasnt the weeks worth. I decided on the 2 top drawers in kitchen. I sat at table n partner helped (primarily his things).

Top drawer was cutlery but also everything else that was thrown in. We now only have 8 of each cutlery items even if all different we will get a proper set for him eventually. Only couple things like glasses /sunglasses n his wallet were put back in there.

Second drawer was mainly clutter bits n pieces and mail with couple kitchen things thrown in like scales. Most went in bin but rest put into there right places and paperwork keeping in the filing pile to keep. I also emptied utensil box that sits on work top, partner always wanted them in drawer, I threw away some n put rest in the second drawer with other kitchen bits.

First time ever these have been decluttered since I have known him. Which is about twelve and half years.

He is a hoarder but done so well lots he fought to keep just few months ago he knows how much means to me to get rid of it all. He really is trying.

Rest of afternoon routines are finished including newly added cross stitch time. Only 23 minutes whilst dinner was cooking but still pleased.

I just ate dinner and put dishes in sink to steep will chill before working on evening routine as "he" cant decide if going out or not.

Will try update later and will update here if I do if not fill you in tomorrow once sort morning out :-)

Hey guys I'm back he did go out so I sat chatting on Facebook an online game of bingo on a group I'm on and downloaded android app dragon story.

Even though I am setting that up I still done dishes, shined sink, cleared hotspots, layed out clothes, closed curtains and got ready for bed. Evening routine is full completed after do my journal (straight after here). One load or washing away other still in washer as partner switched off at plug only realised when went to put in the dryer. Ah well not bad.

Had a very up and down day emotionally and other than routines not much else done but with how bad my back is I have come to bed feeling good that I managed my routines. All of them. In some way or another.

No matter how bad felt or how long it took I got there. Heres hoping can say the same tomorrow.

From then until now

Ok so been having internet issues and I have been out and about.

Everytime I leave the house my routines seem to go out the window.

Wednesday I got all my morning routines done and checked the washing (wasnt dry) before packing few bits for partners later that night. Was feeling so pleased with myself and went to see my papa with smile on my face thinking great start.

My focus was groceries and errands and agreed to meet partner at the centre so could get few bits in. However met in the pub my anxiety was through roof and was feeling ill with it but he wanted to stay so I ended up drinking more. I did however get what we needed to from the shops.

So at least one thing from afternoon done and mission was to clean closet floor I had done the other week. The rest however was non existent until getting ready for bed.

For this again I didnt do my journal or update here or shine my sink and it set off bad president. I did have appointment Thursday so I made sure clothes were out this has helped me so much.

Such a simple thing has started my mornings right. Seeing the clothes means I'm more likely to put them on even if I'm really sore or not going anywhere.

Again my morning on Thursday went off as planned as was going out I skipped laundry but everything else was great.

I am not a morning person so being able to get up and ready with few basic clearing up n bed made has been a great accomplishment.

Some that are naturally organised people probably don't understand how those simple things have been so difficult.

 Now through facebook and messenger I am starting to realise though I'm not alone and others can see this as an achievement for me.

We stayed out after appointment and had a lovely lunch date. Been so long since been able to spend time just me and my partner, to get out and just enjoy it without thinking what else needs done. Will be making more of effort now to do something together.

Was exhausted when got in again I made sure that clothes were out for today but that was about it and no decluttering, cleaning or dishes have been done.

With 2 days skipping not all but a lot of the picking up after myself I worried that I wouldnt want to come back to plan. However, even though I am in agony I feel so motivated I'm in such shock that I had to come update here.

Falling off your plan doesn't mean can't still do it. A few days doesnt mean forever.  Above all that sometimes family, friends and life has to come before the cleaning and organising. That stuff will always be there but the people they might not be. Quality time is required.

Tuesday, 24 September 2019

24th September 2019

Ok so today is my first day on blog and I want to give rough idea of how my morning and afternoon have went so far (will try and update this evening with the rest of my day).

I woke up at 1015 with my alarm going off having felt I hadn't slept well at all. I couldn't move as was in pain so after taking my painkillers I went onto my little group chat that we set up with a few others that are following the Flylady plan.

The ladies there are 5 hours behind me but usually up so early that they are online and get me moving when I can. I got up and started my morning routine (Will put down below) and made a list of what I wanted to get done today (will list as well).

I had 9 things at the top of my list that I wanted to get done now that I was up and dressed. So I set me random number generator to select the order I was going to get these done. One of my fellow Flybabies on the chat agreed to do the game with me. I gave us 10 minutes for each task and called the numbers during this calling breaks so that we could rest.

During my breaks I have downloaded MyFitnessPal app so that I can start watching my calories and nutritional information as well as See How You eat. I cope so much better with pictures.

With the game done there is few things left out. Not much but with only 10 minutes today on the task they were a bit rushed. So I put things in my room back in order. With the game a lot of my afternoon routine was done too (will put below) but I recently added my cross stitch into it as I haven't been getting much craft time with being focused on myself and the house.

I managed a whole hour and have cleared it away for a little pamper time setting this up today. This is a bit of ramble as haven't thought how to structure it yet but I didn't want to wait. One Flylady sentiment coming back to me of why wait? Do it now!

MORNING ROUTINE

Get Up
Get Washed
Brush My Teeth
Get Dressed to my Indoor Shoes
Fix my Hair
Swish and Swipe (a quick clean of toilet, sink and putting things away)
Make the Bed
Open the curtains
Clear the Hotspot beside my bed
Have something to eat
Put in a Load of Laundry to wash
Do 5 minute room Rescue (quick 5 minutes picking stuff up and putting away)
and reading my Planner and my emails, deleting emails as I read unless I need them.


AFTERNOON ROUTINE

Think "What's for dinner?" and take anything out of freezer I need (today was easy its leftovers)
Declutter for 15 minutes
Clear a hotspot (today was my desk)
15 minute Mission (put on Flylady website each day)
15 minutes of exercise (with the cleaning I count it if had to move as I cant manage more at the moment)
my Daily focus (today was to clean out my purse and handbag)
and hanging my washing up to dry
Then is Craft time
AND Pamper time

LIST TO DO

1. yesterdays Dishes
2. Decluttering a box from the corner of my room
3. Putting Clothes I am getting rid of into the charity bag and carriers for tomorrows collection
4. Decluttering patterns from folder 1
5. Decluttering patterns from folder 2
6. Decluttering patterns from folder 3
7. Start Putting together a Stitch gift package 
8. Swish and Swipe
9. Hanging up Laundry to dry

So far so good this has all been done. I am now going to sort some dinner and then will be time for my evening routine.

EVENING ROUTINE

Shine the Sink (do the dishes and clean out the sink)
Clear Livingroom Hotspot (usually beside where is sit)
Check Planner for tomorrows activities and Check emails
Lay out Clothes for Tomorrow
Check if clothes are dry and if so put them away
Close the Curtains
Get Washed (tonight having a long bath)
Brush Teeth
Sort my Hair
Moisturise
Get in my PJs
Clear hotspot beside my bed
Write in Journal
Relax with book, music and or TV
and Now will be Update blogs as required

Will come back and update this post with how I get on. Hopefully tomorrow I can be bit more interesting and easier to follow ;-)

As promised I am back with my update of this evening. Dinner was leftover curry with chips so fairly simply put together. I let settle while watching L.A's Finest trying to catch up on it then done my dishes and shined the sink. Afterwards I even managed to get the charity bags put out for collection so Yay Go Me!

I have since finished the rest of my routine and had a lovely relaxing bath and now in bed ready to settle for the night.

Be back with another post soon to keep you posted on my journey.